Hi, I’m Ray. I am a father of two, a partner to my wonderful wife, a co-parent, a nature lover, and a relationship nerd. My mission here is to help you change your life. I’m already proud of you for stepping this far along the journey toward growth. Let’s take your next steps together.  

My coaching journey was both counterintuitive and predictable. For most of my life, I pursued my passion for nature. I became a scientist and spent my time traveling the world, discovering new species, and teaching others to appreciate the creatures that share our planet. But then, my personal life detonated. My marriage ended. I became estranged from my family of origin. And my career in academia halted. During this time, I found therapy, coaching, and the entire enterprise of self-growth. Everything changed.

After my life adopted a new meaning by orienting around growth and relationship, I developed a new mission. Now, I want to help others with their relationships. The most surprising thing I’ve learned thus far is just how learnable it is. Simple techniques can transform triggering fights into connected conversations. Together, these methods teach us how to be more honest with ourselves. How are we not taught this stuff earlier in life?!